Islam didn't deny the beautiful feeling between you and her. It only created a boundary so that the girl's pride will be kept secure and the guy will not be tricked by his desire.
Islam just shows the right and safe path, for you and her, whether to follow it or not.Watch this video:
Actually, when I listen to his story till end, I realise in his experience, there are some similar things which is same as in other 'ustaz's love stories I heard before I would like to point, and I concluded they are the 'Islamic couple Golden Rules' :
1. Go and meet her/his parents first.
2. Whenever you want to have a date before marriage, you MUST BE accompanied by her/his parents/guardian (like in the video above, 1 metre range haha)
3. For guys, DONT delay your marriage with unreasonable reasons when you already coupled. Make it your 1st priority, ASAP as you have the money etc. (yes, you need to forget about 'enjoy life first', but wait, isn't marriage is more enjoyable?)
See, then you can still get the girl you love as simple as that, and more, with His blessings. =)
(sebenarnye, bagi ak ramai pemuda-pemudi hari ini terjebak dengan gejala cinta sosial camni sebab mereka terlampau banyak masa kosong.... err camne nak ckap. sebenarnye bile kite ade 'perjuangan' di dlam pikiran, insyaAllah bile perasaan tuh dtang, kite ade bende lg penting nak pikir. Paham? haha =D )
"sebenarnye bile kite ade 'perjuangan' di dlam pikiran, insyaAllah bile perasaan tuh dtang, kite ade bende lg penting nak pikir."
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agree ngn hang pasai gejala sosial tuh.... awat laa ramai sgt remaja2 nie takot benor nak nikah..kalu dah gatai sangat laa... sbb dgn bernikah ni laa..pintu rezki terbukak luasss Allah berikan... insyaAllah... =)
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